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It seems very important to people for them to be able to classify us. Like ogres, and onions, and probably all of you, I have layers. How many you see under depends on a lot of factors. Personally, I have to trust you. In a public context like this, I have to trust myself. Mostly not to say anything that will hurt my custody stuff later. I’ve also…
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